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Child development psychologists tell us that deep and lasting shaping of neural pathways happens in the first hours, days, months, and years of life. Basic dispositions are formed that can last a lifetime. Whether you are held, spoken to, fed, made to feel safe and cared for — you have no choice in any of it, but it more or less forms your emotional skeleton. It determines how sensitive you are to threat, how open you are to new experience, your capacity to exercise empathy.
人生很多事情一生出來,以及在他的兒童發展時期就註定了,很難改變。人的成功,也制約於他的條件,平心而論,人的成功,也是運氣使然(看你出生在什麼家庭)。 |
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