交易如何影響你的生活?

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• 「How has the pursuit of trading impacted your life for better and worse? How has it changed you as a person? How has it changed your outlook on life? How has it affected your relationships?  Let's discuss since it is the weekend」

  
  

周日，我最喜歡將國外的投資網站及論壇看一遍，這讓我的周日非常充實。但我也知道，其實不看也可以，有時候不看更好，出去走走，享受不交易的時光。不過，今天早上在elitetrader.com站上看到一位網友問了上述的命題，我覺得是很好的命題，所以放在這邊讓大家討論一下。

對一位交易員而言，和一般上班族最大的不同是，我們沒有blue monday，這並不是說我們不用去面對2015年8月24日的星期一，而是說我們可以在周五準備好，如何面對星期一，所以通常我在周一一開盤時，是很光明的(if not exciting)，周六周日反而讓我覺得有點不連續的感覺。我這樣想，其實是有一點點犯了賭徒的個性，所以，下面的lugar，在elitetrader.com給了一段話，相當醒世和警世:

• I'm pretty sure for most people/traders, generally speaking, it has adversely affected their life,

  
                                 
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  Money makes you dark, to say the least,
  
  You, and the world, and your family/friends...would all be better off...if you were a school teacher, or ran a pet shelter -- or something along those innocent, simple, pure lines,
  
  The money is good...if you are one of the ultra rare less than 1% of traders who are truly profitable,
  But you have a relatively empty feeling, when it's all said and done -- you buy alligator shoes, or a Rolex...but so what, doesn't feel that rewarding,
  
  All we are are just basically Vegas gamblers...we come and enter the casino, sit down at a table...and play,
  That's essentially the office of a trader -- How many people can say that about themselves with a certain degree of proud, high esteem...

  
  

各位如何看交易這件事，有人真的願意將交易當一輩車的職業和志業嗎?想聽聽您的想法。

(註: 照片攝於台北市敦化南路二段)

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我喜歡交易，讓我的老婆也喜歡我，但過程並不容易

I love it! I couldn't be much happier.
The morning commute to the kitchen for coffee is very easy.
I can't think of a nicer lifestyle. I totally get to pick who I associate with.
I can take a vacation any time I choose. My wife loves it.
If I want to knock off early on Friday afternoon, I can do that (like yesterday).
I can live anywhere there is fast internet access.

But success did not come overnight for me. There were years of utter misery.
Luckily I have a very supportive wife with patience of Job.
But MDs don't just get their rewards until they pay a heavy price also - in terms of time, effort, stress and money.
It is so for many highly rewarding vocations.

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王文忠 發表於 2017-8-20 12:10
有時我和老婆也會吵架,

我怕影響我的操作績效,

要多多跟文忠學習如何在交易和家庭中取得平衡

王文忠

sec2100 發表於 2017-8-20 11:45
文忠，你娶到一個好老婆了。

有時我和老婆也會吵架,

我怕影響我的操作績效,
我想,要改變老婆,就要先改變自己,
我就投其所好,
幫她做一些,她喜歡的事情。

dpong

王文忠 發表於 2017-8-20 10:02
要懂得"交換"
我喜歡交易，
同時讓我的老婆也喜歡,

哈哈！文忠兄真的是娶到一個好老婆了。

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王文忠 發表於 2017-8-20 10:02
要懂得"交換"
我喜歡交易，
同時讓我的老婆也喜歡,

文忠，你娶到一個好老婆了。

王文忠

sec2100 發表於 2017-8-20 09:09
我喜歡交易，讓我的老婆也喜歡我，但過程並不容易

I love it! I couldn't be much happier.

要懂得"交換"
我喜歡交易，
同時讓我的老婆也喜歡,
我都是用"交換"的方法,
舉例:
我都會抽空,幫她做家事,
同時要求她,幫我盯盤,警示。

當"交換"家事,
當次事後的結果,
是獲利的績效,
我們就一起去吃大餐,
讓她感覺此次獲利,
是因為她有在盯盤,
進而讓她對交易,產生成就感。

王文忠

「How has the pursuit of trading impacted your life for better and worse? How has it changed you as a person? How has it changed your outlook on life? How has it affected your relationships?  Let's discuss since it is the weekend」
內文翻譯如下:
交易的追求如何影響你的生活越來越好？ 你如何改變你作為一個人？ 它如何改變你的人生觀？ 它如何影響你的關係？ 我們來討論，因為現在是周末

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Trading is a multidimensional skill. Trading with or without "real passion for trading" makes the difference in personal experience that consequently reflects in life. If a trader wish to blame anything he has to blame himself. If a trader wish to appreciate he has to appreciate his love for the profession.

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上述英文網站討論連結:

https://www.elitetrader.com/et/t ... d-your-life.312356/